Monday, September 30, 2013

Being Different - Lesson 4


Being Different Lesson 4: Joshua

I have struggled to decide where to go next L  I have three characters and the 5 points for each of them written in an outline, and for the life of me I cannot decide which one should follow Rahab.  The OCD part of me screams that Joshua has to go next because that is chronological, but I am so ready to skip to Nehemiah or David that I can’t stand it!  But the OCD wins out for now J

So to begin week four I want us to look at two brave men and then our homework will camp us on just one of them.  Joshua and Caleb were listed in Numbers 13:3-16 in the list of spies sent to look at Canaan, the land promised to the Israelites.  They were given specific instructions from Moses as to what to look for in the land and to try and bring back some of the fruit of the land.  Read Numbers 13:17-20. 

When the spies return we see two very different views.  The majority of the spies return with doom and gloom.  Read Numbers 13:26-29 and you will find that it spells out an impossible battle ahead from most of the spies.  But I love verse 30.  Read it.  I confess, part of me loves because that is where I named my second born.  And yes, my Caleb tends to silence the crowd sometimes as well, but often not quite for something so  nobly as this Caleb *grin*.   

Skip to Numbers 14:6-10 and read it please (of course, feel free to read it all if you never have…its good).  Joshua and Caleb had a very different perspective of the land and the people they would battle because their focus wasn’t on the enemy.  Their focus remained on God and His Plan.  God promised the land so Joshua and Caleb knew it would happen.  Kind of like Abraham and Isaac lets detour to one of my other favorite passages (and yes I realize I have A LOT of favorites!).  Turn to Hebrews 11:17-19.  I think Joshua and Caleb were so focused on the Promise from God and they knew everything else was in His control.  What about you, where is your focus?  Do you focus on the enemy?  Is the enemy the size of giants or numerous as grasshoppers?  Or is your focus on the One who holds you in His “righteous right hand” (Isa. 41:10)

This week think about Joshua and Caleb.  Look back at how they kept their focus on God regardless of circumstances.  They spied on the enemy and then faced stoning from their own people but even through all of that they kept their faith in God to deliver them and protect them.  We can learn several things from them, beginning with staying focused on God when everyone else is focused on the world!


 

Lesson 4 Homework Day 1: Support Your Leader – fully

 

Let’s start with a little history.  Please read Exodus 24:12-14.  The Lord has summonsed Moses to come to the top of Mount Sinai so he takes his aide, Joshua with him.  I find this very interesting.  Up to this point, who had Moses relied on as his sort of “right hand man”?

 

 

Yes, his brother Aaron.  Up until now Aaron had been Moses mouthpiece, his prayer partner, his family, etc.  But Moses left Aaron behind to guide the people while he went to meet with God.  Whom do you normally take on big events?  I usually take my husband and kids.  I don’t know about you, but I think receiving tablets from God would be classified as a big and major event, but Moses left Aaron behind.  Do you have any thoughts as to why the change in companion?

 

 

 

 

I would love to hear yours!  And I have a couple too.  One maybe that Moses felt no one but Aaron was responsible enough to lead the people while he was away (hmmm that turned out well didn’t it?  Moo).  Or maybe because Moses knew that Joshua would be the next leader and he wanted Joshua to share the experience of travelling to meet God.  At any rate, Joshua has been tagged as Moses assistant from this point forward.

Now flip over to Exodus 33:7-11.  Where does Moses speak to the Lord?

 

 

And how does Moses speak to the Lord? (Ex 33:11)

 

 

It’s time for a tangent *grin* I know y’all are excited.  This lesson is about Joshua, but I want to pause right here for a minute for a free lesson.  Let me ask again…how does Moses speak to the Lord?  Face to Face.  Communication is an amazing thing when it is done effectively and consistently.  I am fearful that our generation has completely missed the point of communication.  I think communication has become a tool of the enemy in ways that Moses never imagined.   Let’s dig deeper for a minute…I promise I will return to Joshua soon.

One thing that stresses me out these days is technology.  Specifically these dang phones that are smarter than humans.  My kids just got phones for good report cards.  We’ve already grounded one from theirs.  It’s been exactly 26 hours.  Lord, help us.

I am one of the most social people you will meet, and it pains my heart that technology is tearing away the very fabric that God made us to enjoy.  Fellowship.  Face to face conversations.  It’s the same method that God and Moses used to communicate.  We don’t have them anymore.  Phone calls replaced home visits, texting replaced phone calls, and now we resort to social media as a main source of communication.  Be honest, when is the last time you went to someone’s house just to visit and catch up…not for sickness or surgery or death in the family but to just visit?  Write their name and the approximate date.

 

 

Now, when is the last time you called someone to check in?  And I mean a real phone call?  Write their name and the approximate date.  _____________________________

Finally, when is the last time you texted a quick “hey, just checking in”? 

 

 

I am willing to bet the last one is the most recent.  But you probably updated facebook or twitter or something called instagram before you sent the text!  Do you see the progression?  We our isolating ourselves from “real” fellowship and replacing it with pretend friendships that only exist in cyberspace.  I got a tweet reply from Beth Moore, Travis Cottrell and Priscilla Shirer in the same week and you would have thought I had dinner with them or something.  When I reflected back on the excitement, I felt a little silly.  I have decided that I don’t want fake relationships, I want face to face.  First with God and then with others.  Join me please.

Back to Joshua…we saw again how Joshua supported Moses by guarding the tent.  I am sure that job was not exactly exciting.  But it is clear that Joshua took the job seriously and stayed by the tent. 

Our first lesson from Joshua is to support our leaders fully.  Sometimes we disagree with our leaders and that is perfectly fine.  But we still must respect and support them if they are led by God.  Obviously if they are leading against God’s Word then we should evaluate if they are truly the leader God intends for us to follow.  Leaders in our lives are in many aspects.  Political, church, jobs, household, etc.  Pray for your leaders now and ask God to show you ways to show your support to them.

 

Lesson 4 Homework Day 2: Listen and respond when God calls

 

Read Joshua 1:1-10.  Do you ever wonder how Joshua was feeling when the Lord told him that he was in charge?  Have you ever experienced a time when someone appointed you leader when you weren’t sure if you were ready?  If so, describe how you felt.

 

 

 

 

I will never forget the first time I was asked to be WMU leader at Wilson’s Mills Baptist church.  First, I didn’t know what WMU even meant.  We had been visiting the church a few months and had recently joined the church and shortly after my Sunday School teacher approached me “on behalf of the nominating committee”.  Poor me, not having grown up in church, I had no clue that I should have said “let me pray about it”.  Instead I said, “sure if you really think I am qualified”.  And of course everyone said absolutely!  So the next thing you know I am WMU Director and it was as big of a disaster as you can imagine (until Jesus got ahold of me and set me straight).

 

I am certain I had the same feelings you mentioned above.  And I imagine Joshua experienced some of them as well.  Fill in the blank from verse 1:5b

“As I was with Moses, ______ _______ ____________ _______ _________ _________; I will never leave you or forsake you”.

And then in verse 6:   “Be strong and courageous, because _____________ will lead these people…..”

Do you think if God spoke these truths over you that you would have viewed your situation as different?  Would you have been a more confident leader? 

I think there are two keys to Joshua’s calling.  The first is that Joshua heard the call.  He was in tune with God and was listening for instruction.  I think you will agree that before you can respond, you must hear.  How often do we try to put it in the other order?  I can tell you horror stories of early ministry life when I tried to act before I had listened.  It didn’t turn out very well.  Can you think of your own example of when you have acted on behalf of God before you have listened to what He has instructed?

 

 

 

 

In verses 2-9 God basically tells Joshua to be strong and courageous.  That He is never going to forsake Joshua and that Joshua will lead the people into the Promised Land.  Now read verse 10 again.  What does it tell us about Joshua’s reaction?

 

 

Joshua ordered.  He listened to God’s instructions and he ordered the officers of the people to get them ready.  It doesn’t say Joshua whined.  It doesn’t say he rolled his eyes, nor does it say he stomped a foot.  He listened and he responded.  Plain and simple. 

Let’s travel back to my dear friend James.  Read James 1:22-25.  What two things does James tell his readers they should do?

1     _________________________

 

2     _________________________

 

YES!  Listen and obey the Word!  He says it is not enough to listen, you must obey.  Just as Joshua listened to God and then obeyed.  Let’s look at another passage.  Turn to John 10:26-28.  If you are reading a “Red Letter Bible” then take note that these words are in red.  What does Jesus tell us about His sheep in verse 27?

 

His sheep listen to _________________________________

 

His sheep _________________________ Him.

 

If you are a born again Believer in Christ then YOU my friend are one of His Sheep.  So today, can you answer that you are listening to His voice?  Are you obeying what you hear God telling you?

There are many, many more examples in God’s Word that tell us to listen and obey.  See if you can find at least one other scripture.

 

 

I found Matthew 28:19-20 and Luke 11:28. 

You get the point…Joshua had a special characteristic that we too must try to imitate.  He listened to God and then responded to the calling.  Pray for God to speak to you and direct you to your calling in His Will.  And be strong and courageous because friend…He is with you too!

Lesson 4 Homework Day 3: Remember

 

I am typing from the road tonight.  We have had two fun filled days at Busch Gardens and Water Country USA.  I am waterlogged and content.  And if we survive the next 22 hours or so without anyone melting down and getting in trouble…it will have been the best mini vacation ever J.  But we are tired and maybe a little hungry…so I am not exactly optimistic!

For today’s homework, please read Joshua 4:1-9.  Today we will focus on one word…remember.  What does the word remember mean to you?  What kind of connotation does it carry when you hear the word remember?

 

 

 

 

When I hear the word, I think of several things.  Some things bring a smile to face and others might bring a tear to my eye.  I think of my family and the fun times we’ve had together (this weekend will certainly be atop the list).  I think of friends that I don’t see anymore.  I think of favorite sermons.  I think of past sin that I have committed and I am thankful for Jesus, my Savior. 

Today when we were leaving Water Country USA my little guy wanted to know if he could look for a souvenir and I asked why he needed one and he said “how am I going to remember this place without one”.  I laughed.  He has more LOST souvenirs in his room than you could even count.  And my oldest said, don’t worry mom will make a shutterfly book.  (Ha she knows me too well!).

In Joshua 4, the Lord tells Joshua to pick 12 men to gather 12 stones from the place where the priest were standing.  Look back, where are the priests standing?  (Joshua 3:17)

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Where they are standing is not important, it is what they were holding.  What was it?

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God basically wanted a stone from His Presence for each tribe to build a memorial.  Why do you think God instructed them to do this?

 

 

 

 

 

 

I think that God knew they would forget.  I think when they left Egypt they showed God how quickly they would forget what He had done to save them.  He freed them from slavery with all sorts of amazing wonders and yet they whined and ended up losing their faith in His protection and provision and were punished by wandering for 40 years until that generation died off.  I think God decided to give this generation a better shot.  He gave them something physical to look at so they could remember and tell others.

Think of something in your life God gave you as a sort of “memorial” to remind you of something He brought you through or did for you.  Something tangible that has His fingerprints all over it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

An easy one to me is children.  They are tangible and they absolutely are His creation.  And I am humbled every time I look at them that He trusts me to borrow them on earth.  I think another one specific to me is a ring my daddy gave me the year he and my mom divorced.  I look at it in my jewelry box sometimes and Praise God that I survived such a dysfunctional childhood and became a women after God’s own heart.  I am not only His Child and His Princess.  I am His miracle.  Just ask my husband.

What New Testament tangible/ritual thing do we do to remember what Jesus has done for us?

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Read Luke 22:18-20.  The last communion we attended at church my little one asked if he “had” to eat the nasty cracker.  It occurred to me then that we might not have done a good enough job explaining why we do communion.  I don’t think we have emphasized the importance of the remembering.  I think we are hung up on the ritual and going through the motion that we miss the point of it. 

Remembering.  God wants us to remember all the things he has done for us.  He wants us to remember that Jesus was broken for us.  Jesus bled for us.  That is the only way we are saved is by the brokenness of Jesus.  Without Jesus, there is no way to heaven.  Without the death and resurrection, we are doomed to hell.  So I think the least we can do is remember.

We can learn this little character trait from Joshua.  Read Joshua 4:19-24.  Joshua sets up the stones and tells the Israelites they are to tell their children what the stones mean.  Write out verse 24:

 

 

 

 

 

 

I believe this is still a command for us today.  We are to remember the things God has done in our lives and tell others.  We are to show them tangible things that represent His blessings in our lives.  Keeping His blessings to yourself deprives other people from seeing Him in your life.  Christianity is no good kept in secret.  You must witness so that others can see Him in you.

Pray for God to show you how you can point others to the good things He has done for you.  I need to go feed my starving family before the meltdown begins.

Tomorrow is another one of my favorite passages J  yeah, I know…they all are!

Praying for God’s blessing on you…


 

Lesson 4 Homework Day 4: Choose each day to serve the Lord

 

Please read Joshua 24:14-18.  A lot has happened in the lives of our Israelite friends.  Every male was circumcised at Gilgal, Jericho has fallen, Achan sinned and his clan was destroyed, Ai was destroyed, the sun stood still, the land was divided, lots and lots of activity and excitement.  If you have never read the entire book of Joshua, I highly encourage it.  It’s better than Duck Dynasty and Big Brother combined! 

What is the sub title of this chapter in your Bible?

 

 

What is the definition of “renewed”?

 

 

 

 

Here are the definitions that I found on Webster’s web site:

1:- to make like new: restore to freshness, vigor, or perfection

2: to make new spiritually

3a: to restore to existence

3b: to make extensive changes in

4: to do again

5: to begin again

 

I don’t know about you, but the last time I checked, you only need to restore something and make something like new and do it over…if you messed it up to begin with!  Our Israelite friends have not been behaving on the journey.  Flesh took over and they sinned against the Lord.  Look at verse 14 again.  Joshua tells them to fear and serve the Lord.  And when does he tell them to fear and serve the Lord?

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Notice he doesn’t say, tomorrow serve the Lord.  Or next week.  Most importantly notice please that Joshua does not say “when you get your life straightened out and turn from your wicked ways and grow up and have a family…fear and serve the Lord”.  Joshua says “Now”.  Underline that word in your Bible if you write in it. 

Verse 15 is probably one of the most quoted and printed verses in the Bible…or at least part of it is.  Recite the section you see everywhere…

 

 

 

 

 

 

But I think you lose the meaning Joshua intended if you only say “As for me and my household, we will serve the Lord”.  Don’t get me wrong, if you are living like you really mean it then that statement is awesome.  But read the first part of verse 15.  I want you to underline one more section…that I feel is the imperative part for us to understand.

“choose for yourselves this day”

I think this fits with the first word we underlined very nicely.  NOW…THIS DAY.

Flip to the New Testament.  I know you will be shocked…but I want you to turn to James 4:4.  Fill in the blank

“You adulterous people, don’t you know that friendship with the world means enmity against God? Therefore, anyone who _____________ to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God.”

The choice is ours my friends.  And I have bad news…it’s a daily choice.  Look at Luke 9:23.  When do we pick up our cross to follow Jesus? 

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And dear one, that is a CHOICE…daily.  God doesn’t make you follow Jesus.  You choose to do it…daily.  You choose Him or the world.  Every day.  There is no gray area in His eyes. 

Review what we have learned from Joshua thus far:

1     ______________________________________________________

 

2     ______________________________________________________

 

3     ______________________________________________________

 

4     ______________________________________________________

 


 

Lesson 4 Homework Day 5: Follow God whole-heartedly

 

We ended yesterday looking at Joshua setting up a covenant between the Israelites and God as well as erecting a stone to remind them.  Look back at Joshua 24:19-27.  He challenged them.  He told them they were not able to do it.  Joshua had lived in the time of Moses and had seen the people go from Pro-God to idol worshippers and back to Pro-God more than one occasion.  He knew keeping their focus on God was near impossible. 

So when they promised, he said ok then just in case, let’s make a covenant and set up a stone to commemorate the event.  He was trying to help them gain an edge.  To have something visual to help them remember.  Be honest…we are no different today.  When we make a promise, don’t we usually have some kind of covenant (paperwork, lawyer even).  And don’t we tend to remember our promises “better” if we have some kind of memorial or something tangible to remind us?  If you have done Beth Moore studies then you probably have repeated covenants at the end of her sessions with various statements of faith and intentions.  And you might have a rope bracelet with blue beads on it from “Believing God” (and if you have, I bet you just tried to recite the 5 faith statements – I did too).

What does Joshua tell them God requires?  Look back at verse 19.  Joshua tells the people God is two things:  holy and jealous.  In other words, He will not be shared.  You will follow Him wholeheartedly or you might as well not at all. 

Look at all of these…I know it is a lot, but humor me.  I spent time finding them first *wink* and I left them in order for you.

Deu 4:29                    Deu 6:5

Deu 10:12                 Deu 11:13

Deu 13:3                    Deu 26:16

 

One more:

Josh 22:5

 

Now you tell me…should the Israelites have been confused or unsure of what is expected of them by God?????  In Deuteronomy alone, we see six instances of the people being told to love the Lord with all their heart, obey Him, etc.  But yet they continually got confused and loved other things more.  They nearly drove Moses crazy.  Every time they seemed to get it, time would pass and they would find something else to worship.  They could not stay focused on the One who had delivered them through basically every obstacle imaginable. 

 

And we are no truly different.  Be honest.  Do you follow God in a way that you think He would consider “wholeheartedly”?  I won’t ask you to write it down for fear you might quite on me, but spend some time praying over that idea.  Following God wholeheartedly.  Do you do it every single time?  Every single circumstance?  It’s a convicting thought isn’t it? 

The thought of following God wholeheartedly was not assigned only to the Israelites in the days of Moses and Joshua.  Let’s see what the New Testament says about the topic.  Read Matthew 22:36-38.  Might as well catch Mark 12:32-34 and Luke 10:26-28.  Sorry but I couldn’t pick which one I liked best. 

 

What is the most common three letter word in those verses?  _______________

 

After reading all of those (haha), I think it is clear.  Love the Lord with all your heart.  Not a piece of your heart, but the whole heart. 

 

What do you think life looks like when you follow God with all your heart?  The question is general but I want you to try to think of specific examples. 

 

 

 

 

I think a life following God with all its heart looks like Galatians 5:22-23.  I think a heart that follows God wholeheartedly doesn’t see circumstances around them but instead sees God at work.  I think they love everyone (unconditionally), find joy in sadness, are at peace in turmoil, are patient at wal mart, act kind towards hostility, show goodness to those who are hateful, are full of faith in times of doubt, are gentle instead of harsh, and are self-controlled at all times (even at the Robin’s Nest buffet).

 

I think following God wholeheartedly is difficult and easy at the same time.  I realize that doesn’t make sense, but I can’t think of another way to say it.  It’s difficult because it makes you stand out to the world as “different”.  You might even be ridiculed or persecuted.  But it is easy because Jesus said “For my yoke is easy and my burden is light” in Matthew 11:30.  It’s easy because it produces the fruits of the Spirit in you and that makes everything seem…easy. 

 

Think of the last time you went through a dramatic or painful experience.  Answer the following questions honestly:

 

What did you focus on?     ________circumstance

________God 

________ friends to console you

________ food or other source of comfort

 

If you answered anything other than God, how did you feel?

 

________ better ________confused _________ not consolable ________ frustrated

 

Now contrast that with a time that you DID keep your focus on God and not your circumstances.  I think the biggest difference is peace.  No matter what is happening all around you, God gives you a peace that cannot be expressed in words.  (see Phil 4:7)

 

Take a challenge with me.  Memorize scripture for the next two months.  Just four scriptures, one on the 1st of the next month and one on the 15th of the month, etc.  Four scriptures over two months.  Then every time you circumstances try to take over your mind or heart, focus on them.  See if you can’t find joy and peace in some mighty tumultuous times.  Here are the scriptures:

 

Month 1

1st        Ex 14:14

15th     Jer 29:11

 

Month 2

1st        Phil 4:19

15th     Matt 6:34

 

These are four that I memorized early on and have STOOD on many days when my flesh told me I was useless, God was not with me, etc.  Memorize them and then shout them at the enemy when he tries to shake you.  You are unshakable if you follow God wholeheartedly.

 

Stand in Him today…and don’t take your eyes off Him. 

 

Praying over you!